Daily Zohar # 4476 – Mishpatim – Is the first or the second is the soul mate
Daily Zohar 4476
155. אִם כָּךְ, הַזִּוּוּג הַשֵּׁנִי שֶׁל הָאִשָּׁה הַזּוֹ לֹא הָיָה מִלְמַעְלָה, וְאַתָּה אוֹמֵר שֶׁנִּדְחֶה אִישׁ מִפְּנֵי אִישׁ? וְאָמַרְנוּ שֶׁהַבַּעַל הַשֵּׁנִי שֶׁנָּשָׂא אֶת הָאִשָּׁה הַזּוֹ הִיא בַּת זוּגוֹ מַמָּשׁ, וְאוֹתוֹ הָרִאשׁוֹן לֹא הָיָה מַמָּשׁ בֶּן זוּגָהּ, וְהַשֵּׁנִי הָיָה שֶׁלָּהּ, וּכְשֶׁהִגִּיעַ זְמַנּוֹ נִדְחֶה זֶה מִפָּנָיו – וַדַּאי זֶה כָּךְ, שֶׁהֲרֵי לֹא נִדְחֵית אוֹתָהּ רוּחַ רִאשׁוֹנָה שֶׁהָיְתָה בָּאִשָּׁה הַזּוֹ אֶלָּא בִּשְׁבִיל הַשֵּׁנִי הַזֶּה, שֶׁהוּא בֶּן זוּגָהּ. (שֶׁהַבֵּן הִיא בַּת זוּגוֹ) (זֶה הַשֵּׁנִי).
Continued from previous DZ
When the souls visit this world, the dead need the living; they need only to draw the soul, that is, the soul level of Ruach that the husband leaves in his wife during the first union, and in it, the Ruach is clothed. If it is said, it is a benefit for the soul, and this woman brings benefit to all. The soul is drawn to the living through the Ruach that her husband left in her; it is not so. For if she had not married another, and the first soul had not been repelled because of another man, that is, the second husband, there would have been another benefit for him in a different way. He would not have been disturbed in the world as he is now upset, nor would he have needed the living in this world as he wanders here and there.
The question arises, if so, was the second unification of that woman not chosen from above, as you have said that a man is repelled by another? He answered that the second husband who took this woman is indeed her true spouse, and the first one is not her true spouse. Therefore, she belongs to the second one, and when his time comes, and he marries her, the first is repelled before him. Indeed, it is so because the first soul (Ruach) that was in that woman was not repelled except because of the second, who is her true spouse. This indicates that the second unification is indeed from above.