Zohar Acharei Mot
“עֵינֵי-כֹל, אֵלֶיךָ יְשַׂבֵּרוּ; וְאַתָּה נוֹתֵן-לָהֶם אֶת-אָכְלָם בְּעִתּוֹ”
“The eyes of all look to You, And You give them their food in due time”
‘Time’ is the aspect of Malchut and the ‘eyes of all’ is Yessod that include from all the sefirot above. When Yessod is unified with Malchut there’s joy in the world that comes from the flowing Light that sustains all.
When there’s negativity and disconnection from Yessod, Malchut can not be in a state of peace and it draws energy from the side of judgment. At such time we can draw blessings only through a priest.
The Zohar reveals that after the death of Nadav and Avihu Moses asked God for the aspect of Chessed, and God told him to speak to Aaron, because he was connected to Chessed and could draw blessings.
Without connection to Yessod we can not have peace and sustenance in our lives.
Every death brings aspects of judgment and that is why the people who are close to the deceased should say “Baruch Dayan Haemet” “Blessed the judge in truth” to justify the judgment.
They ‘lay low’, meaning avoiding situation that may draw judgment, because the force of judgment is still among them.